Letting go is a challenge in itself but getting over it could be just as challenging, if not harder. People always say keep yourself occupied to take your mind off of the situation. I personally think it’s more effective to just let it out as it comes. Be down; be pathetic; be dismal; be angry; you have the right to. You’re supposed to. Just remember to not lose the inability to connect to the world. The people in your life are your crutches. Let them be there. It’s free lol.
Fighting to avoid the reality and telling yourself “Time will heal it” will only make it hurt longer. Time will always heal, but might as well use your time efficiently. Confronting it and dealing with it will only give you more time to start off that clean slate of yours. So take those steps forward, but maybe take those bigger harder steps instead of the small easy steps.
To you anyone feeling the world isn’t on your side at the moment. I say to you “It get’s better. “
— Brian Puspos
12:32 am • 4 December 2013 • 1 note
“We should never, ever, stop trying to be the best versions of ourselves and working on our weak points. It’s
not just about getting a guy, it’s about living a life that is better and more fulfilling all around.”
1:27 pm • 3 December 2013
"This song is for my lady, a very special lady. This song is for my baby girl. Sometimes a perfect person ain’t perfect at all cause a real woman has so many flaws, she’s insecure, she’s self-conscious, she’s in control when she really wants it, she can be a superwoman or a damsel in distress, says she’s okay when she’s feeling depress, with tears in her eyes she’s a beautiful mess, but she’s all that I live for and need. This song is for my lady, she’s perfectly imperfect and she’s perfect for me. I’m looking for a woman that can see, can make it through the hard times, if you never felt pain. You’re better than the rest, my baby. Can appreciate the sunshine if you never see the rain. I really, really love my lady. She’s perfect, perfectly imperfect."
6:18 pm • 1 December 2013 • 2 notes
Got asked to Akbayan’s Winter Formal 😄😊 #yay
6:44 pm • 25 November 2013
'I think everyone is a nerd. So I don't know that anyone, no matter how 'macho' you are, you're still a nerd. Because I believe being a nerd means you are passionate about something. And I'm trying to redefine that for people, because I think that there is way too much vitriol and negativity around words like nerd and geek.' ~ Zachary Levi
9:20 pm • 24 November 2013 • 2,076 notes